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  my dad died

  by termite 35 in

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  dear everyone, my dad died suddenly and unexpectedly at the weekend.he did'nt turn up for a family dinner and my husband and i went to see if he was ok.he was dead.collapsed in his home.i can't stop shaking and i feel really sick.i've lost my mum and now my dad too.i wish i could sleep for months and wake when the pain has finished with me.

  it hurts so much .sorry to bring everyone down-but i'm stressed at having to sort out his arrangements due to the autopsy and funeral etc and the house and my feelings.

  ; i just wanted to tell you all as my husband's gone for a walk and the children are asleep and i'm feeling scared about viewing his body, but i know i'll have to and i feel guilty for feeling like that.stupid thoughts racing through my mind at the moment-need to 'hear' a friendly voice .

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  Another death in our family

  by Mulan in

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  while we were in hawaii, we learned of another death in our extended family.

  our niece, my brother's daughter, had a stepson who died unexpectedly on january 1. such a tragedy.

  he was a well known musician, in our area, so it made the newspaper here.

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  Do We Really Know Who Is Responsible For 9/11?

  by SpannerintheWorks in

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  to this date, it has never been proved who is responsible for the atrocities of the twin towers' destruction.

  an absolutely appalling act.

  who is responsible?

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  Posting reunion photo soon with my granddaughter

  by Nancy K in

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  dear friends, i am relatively 'new' on this website, but i have been posting about not being allowed to see my granddaughter and the 'shunning' thing..i was just going to start a court proceding(my husband is an attorney)to try and get visitation, then my dad passed away..many of you wrote to me and showered me with much needed support.

  thru my dad's 'passing', i had to contact my daughter and we had a long 'talk' and she wasn't 'shunning' me after all..my sister, who is a "double-life" witness told my daughter some terrible lies about me which were ridiculous, and my daughter at that time was being treated for depression, so she didn't know what to think(as my sister is a witness, and she naturally assumed she was being truthful)..i have a damaged neurological system from 8 months of very high-dose chemo, at times i use a cane, i have chronic pain, etc.,but it is all from my illness..my sister was telling my daughter i was on drugs, and yes i am on medication, but not medication that gets one 'high', this is medication i must be on for life.

  so, thru my dad's passing, a miracle has happened, after 2 years of missing my granddaughter, in a few weeks i will be spending an entire weekend with her and my grandson whom i haven't seen, so my daughter and her husband can have some 'alone' time!!

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  what a difference a year makes

  by blindfool in

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  i'm a month away from my 1 year anniversary with jw.com!

  this time last year i was working at a job i hated, arguing with my wife all the time about the wt, and just not sure what i could do about it.

  i recieved some good advice from randy waters of freeminds.org (he probably doesn't even remember it) right about this time last year.

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  To All (My Dad died 12/21)Now Mom had a stroke

  by Nancy K in

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  i haven't been 'on' as my dad died 12/21 suddenly, before that i was about to do the 'lawsuit thing' to see my granddaughter, then 2 days ago my mother was rushed to the hospital and has had a mild stroke...i am totally out of it...but i do have 'good news'.. i'm going to see my granddaughter!!!!!

  turns out, thru all of what's happened lately, i found out that my jw sister lied to my daughter 2 years ago, and she wasn't shunning me, she was upset about the fact my sister lied to her (causing this!

  ) it always 'comes back' as they say..karma, reaping what you sow, etc., ...thanks to all of you kind people..i can't wait to get back on and read the posts...you're doing a great service, to all like and unlike me!

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  One JW Lawsuit , then my Dad died a week ago...

  by Nancy K in

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  hey everybody!!

  "happy new year"..this is 'nancy k'..who's dad just passed 12/21/02, and who had been 'on' about my upcoming lawsuit to see my granddaughter..i have updates, and will be back 'on' soon..my heartfelt thanks to you all!

  nancy k......and tom(my husband) of course!!!

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  JW causing more grief over my Dad's death Sat.

  by Nancy K in

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  my jw sister is causing problems with my dad's death this past saturday..she is down in florida, where my parents live, went there on a pleasure trip to begin with, then our dad passed (as i wrote) unexpectedly..now, she is pressuring my mom to have a viewing and a 'talk' by some jw's and my mom does not want this..my sister is one of those 'double life' jw's..she says unkind things about me behind my back, re: my illness(as my mom has told me), but she has been 'engaged' for 4 yrs.to a 'worldly guy' and we all know they sleep together, etc.,then she turns around and acts like she's miss spirituality..for her to do what she's doing now, well i don't know what to do..i want my mom and dad's wishes to be #1, and for her to try and pressure my mom into a service, also without giving me a chance to be there, well i'm not feeling too good at this point..thank you all so much for your replies, e-mails and love..don't know what i would do without you guys.

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  My Dad died Saturday unexpectedly...

  by Nancy K in

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  hi friends, my father died saturday morning.

  i want to happily say that i sent my dad a print-out of some of your key material re;org, last week and he read it all...witnesses were 'on his back' lately, and he appreciated it.

  keep up the positive focus..it is so important..i wanted to write more, but i guess i'm in shock 'cause i just can't do it...thanks to all of you for your support and help with all the stuff that i've been on the board about..peace and love to all of you and your families..nk

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  A Christmas Card for All my Friends

  by jgnat in

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  this has been a wonderful sanctuary and a great place to make new friends.

  i have made so many here, but i am afraid to name you all in case i miss one.

  merry christmas to you all.

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